At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we know family law isn’t just about paperwork and courtrooms – it’s about people. It’s about guiding families through some of life’s most emotional chapters with clarity, compassion, and strength.
For our founder, Mary Gurganus, that mission has always been personal.
A Dream That Never Let Go
“I’ve wanted to be a lawyer for as long as I can remember,” Mary shares. “Even as a child, that dream was always with me.”
But like many people, life led her on a winding path. Marriage, motherhood, and time spent supporting others came first. And then—thanks to the encouragement of her brother, Charles – that childhood dream came back into focus.
“He reminded me of who I was. Of the passion I had for helping others find justice and direction. He believed in me, and that gave me the courage to go to law school, even as a mom of three.”
Law school was no easy feat. But with a supportive husband, family who stepped in when needed, and a heart set on serving others, Mary made it through. And in 2014, she founded Triangle Divorce Lawyers – a place built on the belief that even in heartbreak, there’s room for healing and hope.
The First Case That Shaped It All
Mary’s very first family law case involved property division and spousal support. She was new, nervous, and fully aware that everyone in the courtroom could see it.
“But what happened surprised me,” she says. “The opposing attorney and the judge treated me with respect and grace. They didn’t tear me down – they helped me rise.”
That moment stuck with her – not just because of the outcome, but because of the example it set. “It reminded me that this profession, at its best, is about helping each other grow. It’s about integrity. It’s about remembering we’re human.”
Why This Work Matters
Mary isn’t just a lawyer. She’s also the child of divorce. And that lived experience gives her work a deeper purpose.
“I remember not seeing my dad for long stretches of time. I remember missing him. And I remember how it felt as a kid – like I was caught in the middle,” she says.
That memory drives her to do everything in her power to prevent children from feeling forgotten or torn. “When I help a parent reunite with their child after a long separation, I ask them to send me a photo. I cry every time. Those joyful, emotional reunions – they’re why I do this.”
The Heart of Triangle Divorce Lawyers
What Mary is most proud of isn’t just the cases she’s won, it’s the team she’s built.
“We’ve created something rare. A place where people feel safe. A team that shares the same values. Colleagues who show up for each other – and for our clients – with heart, wisdom, and humility.”
Whether helping a client imagine life after divorce, guiding someone through a high-conflict custody case, or connecting families with counseling and financial planning, the firm’s mission is always the same: to provide support that goes beyond the legal.
Wisdom Earned Through Experience
Twenty years in family law will teach you a lot. But Mary says some lessons still stand out:
- The most important person in any parent’s life is their child.
- “It’s not about the money or the property. It’s about the kids. We need to get it right for them.”
- Sometimes the best outcome is reconciliation.
- “I’ve seen marriages saved in our offices. That surprises people – but when the situation calls for it, it’s beautiful.”
- Every client deserves to feel seen and heard.
- “I hope our clients leave feeling relief. Not just because the legal piece is done – but because they can see a hopeful future.”
Looking Back – And Ahead
Looking back at the last two decades, Mary says the time has flown – but the memories and relationships have stayed with her.
“I’ve met so many people who changed my life. Who trusted me to help them through their hardest seasons. That’s a privilege I’ll never take for granted.”
Her hope for the future? That Triangle Divorce Lawyers continues to grow and serve – even after she eventually steps away. “I want this firm to outlive me. To give more people great careers and give more families the support they need.”
In Mary’s Words
Mantra on hard days? “This too shall pass.”
- Go-to recharge? Dinner with friends – and a quiet day after a tough trial.
- What fuels you? “My why: to make sure families get what’s fair, and that children feel loved by both parents.”
- Three words to describe the journey? Happy. Fearless. Supported.
From all of us at Triangle Divorce Lawyers – thank you, Mary. Your passion, purpose, and leadership have made a lasting impact on families across North Carolina.
And to our readers- If you’re facing a family transition and want trusted, compassionate guidance, we’re here for you. Call 919-303-2020 or visit here to schedule a confidential meeting with our team.
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