If you’re going through a divorce — or even just thinking about it — you’ve probably heard the word alimony come up. And if you’re like most people, you might be wondering: What exactly is it? Who pays? How is it decided?
You’re not alone — alimony is one of the most misunderstood parts of divorce. So, let’s break it down.
What Is Alimony, Anyway?
Alimony (also known as spousal support) is money that one spouse may have to pay the other after they separate or divorce. The goal? To help the lower-earning (or non-earning) spouse maintain a similar standard of living to what they had during the marriage — at least for a while.
It’s important to remember alimony isn’t automatic. A judge will look at a bunch of different factors before deciding whether it’s appropriate.
How Is Alimony Decided in North Carolina?
North Carolina doesn’t use a one-size-fits-all formula. Here are a few things the court takes into account:
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- How long you were married
- How much each person earns (or could earn)
- Your monthly expenses and lifestyle
- Age and health of both spouses
- Whether there was marital misconduct (yes, infidelity can affect alimony in NC)
- And more…
Sometimes, one spouse may get temporary support (called post-separation support) to help them get through the divorce process. Other times, alimony might continue for several years — or even longer in certain cases.
Do I Have to Go to Court for This?
Not necessarily! Many couples settle alimony through negotiation or mediation — which can save time, money, and stress. But if you can’t reach an agreement, the court will step in and make the decision.
This is where having a knowledgeable divorce attorney comes in. (That’s us.)
What If My Divorce Involves a Lot of Assets?
Great question — if you or your spouse owns a business, has multiple income sources, or there are significant investments involved, you’re probably dealing with a high-net-worth divorce. These situations often involve more complex alimony calculations and require careful financial analysis.
We’ve handled plenty of these — and we’re here to make sure your interests are protected, no matter how simple or complicated your case may be.
Know Your Rights — And Take Action
Alimony can shape your financial future long after the ink dries on your divorce. Whether you think you’ll be writing the checks or cashing them, don’t wait to get the clarity you need.
At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, this is what we do — every single day. We’ve helped business owners, stay-at-home parents, and high-net-worth professionals across North Carolina get clear on alimony and fight for fair outcomes.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Call us at 919-303-2020
Or visit TriangleDivorceLawyers.com to schedule your confidential consultation.
You’ve got questions. We’ve got answers. Let’s get this right — together.
