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Discovering that your spouse has been unfaithful is one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. When that betrayal leads to divorce, it is natural to wonder whether infidelity plays a role in what you are entitled to financially. Many people arrive at this question with strong feelings of hurt and a … Read more
Divorce in North Carolina is often misunderstood. If you are beginning this process, it helps to understand how it works so you can make informed decisions along the way. The 12-Month Separation Requirement In North Carolina, most couples must live separate and apart for at least 12 months before filing for divorce. This requirement is … Read more
Being served with legal papers can feel overwhelming. If you have been served with divorce, custody, or support documents in North Carolina, you may be unsure what to do next. The most important thing to understand is this: Being served starts a timeline. What Being Served Means When you are served, it means a legal … Read more
If you have been served divorce, custody, or support papers in North Carolina, or you have a court date coming up, you may be thinking: “I still have time.” That pause is common. Many people want to understand their situation before taking the next step. However, waiting too long can affect more than your timeline. … Read more
If you are facing separation, divorce, custody, or support questions in North Carolina, you may be asking: “Do I need a lawyer yet, or is it too early?” Many people start by researching online because they want to feel informed before making a difficult decision. That makes sense. But there is an important distinction: Research … Read more
If you have ever asked a family law question and gotten the answer “it depends,” it can feel frustrating, especially when you want clarity fast. In North Carolina family law, “it depends” is often the most responsible answer because the details matter. A few key facts, like safety concerns, financial transparency, parenting routines, and timing, … Read more
Divorce changes nearly every aspect of your life, from where you live to how you manage your finances. But one important task that often gets overlooked in the middle of all those changes is updating your estate plan. If you have a will, a divorce in North Carolina does not automatically make it irrelevant, and … Read more
For many law firms, the first impression is not your website. It is your Google Business Profile (GBP). When someone searches “attorney near me” or Googles your firm’s name, the Google Map Pack often shows up before organic website results. That listing can drive phone calls, directions, and consultation requests, sometimes in minutes. What many … Read more
The moment you realize your spouse is limiting your time with your children can trigger panic, anger, and overwhelming fear. You may wonder if they have the legal right to keep you away, or whether you’re powerless to stop it. These questions race through your mind during one of the most emotionally charged periods of … Read more
I Had a Great Attorney and Still Learned a Costly Lesson Educational information only, not legal or financial advice. Reading this does not create an attorney-client relationship. Let me start with something most people don’t expect to hear. In my first divorce, I hired a very good attorney. I wasn’t unrepresented. I wasn’t careless. I … Read more
Life rarely stays the same after divorce. Jobs change, salaries fluctuate, and unexpected financial shifts happen to even the most prepared parents. If you’re paying or receiving child support in North Carolina and your income has changed significantly, you’re probably wondering whether the court will adjust your child support order to reflect your new reality. … Read more
New Year’s momentum can bring a lot into focus, including a marriage that no longer feels stable, safe, or workable. If divorce is on your mind, you do not have to figure out the next steps alone. A strong plan can help you protect your children, your finances, and your future. This guide covers the … Read more
What Counts as “Living Apart,” and What Doesn’t If you are thinking about separation in North Carolina, one of the first questions is simple but important: what counts as “living separate and apart”? Getting this wrong can delay your ability to move forward with divorce and can create confusion around finances, parenting, and next steps. … Read more
When the calendar year is winding down, many families in Raleigh, Cary, Clayton, Wake Forest, Pinehurst, and across North Carolina are focused on holidays, travel, and tax deadlines. It is also one of the best times to give your estate plan a quick but meaningful checkup, so your documents still match your life, your assets, … Read more
For many people in Raleigh, Cary, Clayton, and the surrounding Triangle area, the holiday season feels very different after separation or divorce. The joy, nostalgia, and family traditions are still there, but so are grief, anxiety, and uncertainty about what the future will look like. If you are in the middle of a separation or … Read more
When it comes to family law whether it’s a custody hearing, a support modification, or a divorce proceeding – first impressions matter. What you wear to court won’t determine the outcome of your case, but it can influence how you’re perceived by the judge and reflect the seriousness with which you approach the process. At … Read more
Considering separation or divorce after the holidays in North Carolina? Learn why January gets called “divorce month,” plus smart first steps for parents. Every year, once the holiday decorations come down, many couples quietly start asking a hard question: Is it time to end this marriage? January has picked up the nickname “divorce month” because … Read more
When your ex-partner announces plans to move out of state, your first thought likely centers on your children. How will this affect your time together? Can you prevent the move? What rights do you have as a parent? These questions weigh heavily on parents throughout Wake County and central North Carolina who face the possibility … Read more
Not every divorce is calm. Some separations are marked by hostility, constant arguments, or even unsafe behavior. This is known as a high-conflict divorce, and it can affect not only your legal case but also your health and emotional well-being. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we know that when conflict escalates, the stress can feel unbearable. … Read more
At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we know family law isn’t just about paperwork and courtrooms – it’s about people. It’s about guiding families through some of life’s most emotional chapters with clarity, compassion, and strength. For our founder, Mary Gurganus, that mission has always been personal. A Dream That Never Let Go “I’ve wanted to be … Read more
Dating after a divorce can feel both exciting and overwhelming. Whether you’re re-entering the dating world after many years or just starting to think about it, this new chapter is a chance to rediscover yourself and build meaningful connection – with clarity, care, and confidence. Understanding the Challenges of Dating After Divorce It’s completely normal … Read more
Dividing retirement assets can be one of the most complex—and most overlooked—aspects of divorce. Many couples focus on dividing the house or everyday accounts, but forget about the long-term value of pensions, 401(k)s, and other retirement plans. In North Carolina, these assets are often considered marital property and may be subject to equitable distribution. If … Read more
Parenting comes with enough challenges—understanding your rights as an unmarried parent shouldn’t be one of them. In North Carolina, custody and visitation rights aren’t automatically determined by whether parents are married. But legal steps may be necessary to ensure your role as a parent is protected, especially if you’re facing custody issues, disagreements, or the … Read more
When parents of a child with special needs face separation or divorce, the emotional challenges multiply. Beyond the typical concerns about parenting time and decision-making authority, these families must consider therapy schedules, specialized education plans, medical appointments, and the unique support systems their child depends on. Creating a custody agreement that truly serves a child … Read more
If you’re considering divorce in North Carolina, one of the first questions you may have is: How long will this take? While every case is different, North Carolina law outlines a clear timeline for divorce. Understanding the process can help you prepare emotionally, financially, and legally. The Mandatory One-Year Separation Period In North Carolina, you … Read more
When a family separates, one of the hardest questions is: Where will the children live? For parents focused on minimizing disruption to their kids’ lives, nesting—sometimes called birdnesting—offers a creative, short-term solution during or after divorce. But is it a smart choice for your family? Let’s take a closer look at how nesting works, when … Read more
Divorce can feel like your world is crumbling—but you are not alone. While the journey may feel overwhelming, it can also be the start of rediscovering your strength, healing your heart, and building a future that reflects who you truly are. As a real estate professional who works with families during transitions, I understand how … Read more
It’s second nature to share updates online—whether it’s a weekend trip, a new relationship, or even a bad day. But if you’re going through a separation or divorce in North Carolina, it’s time to pause before you post. Why? Because what you share on social media can be used against you in court. Let’s break … Read more
When your marriage reaches a crossroads, the path forward isn’t always clear. In North Carolina, couples facing marital difficulties have two primary legal options: separation or divorce. Each choice carries distinct advantages and challenges that can significantly impact your financial future, parental responsibilities, and personal well-being. Understanding these differences becomes crucial when making one of … Read more
Estate planning isn’t a one-time task. It’s an ongoing process shaped by personal circumstances and changing laws. Key federal exemptions are expected to change soon. As a result, proactive planning is essential to preserve wealth and avoid unnecessary tax exposure. At Triangle Estate Lawyers, we help clients build flexible, tax-efficient estate plans. We ensure they reflect … Read more
Estate planning with emotional intelligence helps families make thoughtful, values-driven decisions—not just financial ones. At Triangle Estate Lawyers, we know that effective estate planning is about more than just documents. It’s a deeply personal process shaped by emotions, relationships, and legacy. As a result, we believe emotional intelligence—including empathy, self-awareness, and social skills—is essential. According to … Read more
Domestic violence casts a long shadow over family relationships, and when marriages affected by abuse come to an end, the legal side of things can become particularly complex. In North Carolina, courts take allegations of domestic violence very seriously, understanding that these situations require careful consideration to protect both victims and children involved. If you’re … Read more
Separation and divorce are life-changing—not just for you, but for your children as well. While adults may understand the reasons behind the change, kids are often left feeling confused, anxious, or even responsible. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we’ve seen how vital it is for children to feel secure, supported, and loved during this transition. The … Read more
Not all divorces are created equal—and neither are all divorce attorneys. When you’re navigating the legal, financial, and emotional complexities of separation, the experience of your lawyer plays a critical role in shaping the outcome. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we’ve seen how the right legal strategy—built on preparation, insight, and a strong understanding of the … Read more
Back-to-school season can be exciting—and stressful—for co-parents navigating shared custody. From bus schedules to homework routines, balancing your custody agreement with your child’s academic needs takes planning and flexibility. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we help families across Wake County, Johnston County, Franklin County, and the surrounding counties create custody agreements that work for every season, … Read more
When you’ve spent years building your career as a doctor, lawyer, executive, or entrepreneur, protecting what you’ve earned matters—especially during a divorce. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we understand the distinct challenges professionals often face. If you’re navigating a separation or divorce, it’s essential to work with a legal team that understands the financial landscape and … Read more
When parents can’t agree on custody arrangements, North Carolina courts sometimes appoint a Guardian Ad Litem to represent the child’s best interests. If you’re facing a custody dispute in Wake County, Johnston County, or surrounding areas, understanding what a Guardian ad Litem does – and when one might be appointed – can help you navigate … Read more
The NCAA’s Name, Image, and Likeness (NIL) policy has opened the door for college athletes to earn income through sponsorships, endorsements, and personal branding. As student-athletes take on these new financial opportunities, many are experiencing significant income for the first time—making estate planning for college athletes a critical step toward protecting their future. Why Estate Planning Is Essential in … Read more
At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we understand that divorce is one of life’s most difficult transitions. But it doesn’t have to be messy, bitter, or destructive. That’s why we offer an approach we call Divorce with Dignity a er, more respectful way to move forward while protecting your peace of mind. What Does Divorce with Dignity … Read more
If you’re going through a divorce — or even just thinking about it — you’ve probably heard the word alimony come up. And if you’re like most people, you might be wondering: What exactly is it? Who pays? How is it decided? You’re not alone — alimony is one of the most misunderstood parts of … Read more
Mother’s Day is a special occasion to celebrate the incredible role mothers play in the lives of their children. However, for mothers going through a divorce, it can also be a time of mixed emotions. If you’ve recently gone through or are currently navigating a divorce, Mother’s Day may bring feelings of sadness, uncertainty, or … Read more
April is Child Abuse Awareness Month, a time to reflect on the impact of child abuse and raise awareness about how we can protect the most vulnerable members of our community—our children. Child abuse, in any form, can have devastating consequences on a child’s physical, emotional, and psychological well-being. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we recognize … Read more
By Marcella Stewart, Mary Kay Independent Sales Director Divorce is one of life’s most stressful experiences. It’s emotionally draining, physically exhausting, and often overwhelming. During this difficult time, self-care is more important than ever—including skincare. As a Mary Kay Independent Beauty Consultant with over 21 years of experience, I have seen firsthand how prioritizing skincare … Read more
When it comes to marriage, few people like to think about the possibility of things not working out. However, prenups (prenuptial agreements) and postnups (postnuptial agreements) are practical tools that can provide peace of mind and financial protection in case of unforeseen circumstances. These legal agreements help define the financial and property rights of each … Read more
Divorce is never just about separating lives—it’s about dividing the financial future you built together. Retirement accounts, often one of the most significant assets in a marriage, can be a major point of contention. Understanding how these accounts are divided if you’re going through a divorce in North Carolina can help you protect your financial … Read more
Could a single tweet or Facebook post influence the outcome of your divorce? With how much information is online these days, your posts can significantly affect legal proceedings, especially in divorce cases. Sharing personal moments or opinions on social media might seem harmless, but these posts can become pivotal evidence in court. Social Media as … Read more
While divorce has always been a life-altering event, for those in their later years, the challenges can be unique and particularly complex. If you or someone you know is facing a divorce later in life, it’s crucial to understand why support is essential and how having the right team, like Triangle Divorce Lawyers, can make … Read more
The Super Bowl is one of the most highly anticipated sporting events in the world. Millions of fans gather around television screens to cheer for their teams, indulge in halftime performances, and enjoy the iconic commercials. It’s a day that unites friends, families, and communities across the United States. However, for some, the Super Bowl … Read more
How does alimony impact your future after divorce? This financial support can profoundly affect your standard of living and stability during a challenging transition. Understanding the nuances of alimony in North Carolina can help you make informed decisions and protect your interests. What Is Alimony? Alimony is financial support paid by one spouse to the … Read more
A Microsoft executive and father of four was gunned down in 2022. It was a murder-for-hire hit orchestrated by his ex-wife with whom he was in a bitter custody battle. Raleigh divorce attorney Kathleen Murphy talked about the case on Nancy Grace’s podcast, “Crime Stories.” Grace is a former prosecutor in the Atlanta-Fulton County, Georgia DA’s … Read more
At first glance, family law and personal injury law may seem like unrelated areas of practice. However, when a serious injury occurs, these legal realms often intersect in profound and complex ways. An injury can ripple through a family’s financial and emotional landscape, complicating divorce proceedings and requiring careful legal navigation. In this blog, we’ll … Read more
Whether you’re looking forward to your divorce or are facing it with a heavy heart, you need an experienced divorce lawyer to guide you through the process. The right lawyer will protect your interests, assist you with child custody, and ensure a fair division of property between you and your spouse. Hiring a divorce lawyer … Read more
We are thrilled to announce that Mary Gurganus, the Founder and Senior Attorney of Triangle Divorce Lawyers, has been recognized by North Carolina Lawyers Weekly on its distinguished Family Law Power List. This accolade is reserved for legal professionals who exemplify unparalleled expertise, commitment, and excellence in their practice areas. Mary’s journey into family law … Read more
Substance use is often accompanied by complex mental health challenges, making the path to recovery a multifaceted journey. According to Desiree King from Welwynn, understanding the mental health disorders that frequently co-occur with substance use is key to providing effective treatment. Some of the most common conditions include depression, anxiety, ADHD, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, … Read more
Divorce can be one of life’s greatest challenges. If children are involved, it dramatically raises the emotional, practical, and financial consequences. Whether you’ve started the divorce process or are considering separating, you may have questions about child support in North Carolina. We recommend contacting one of our knowledgeable divorce attorneys for answers about your situation. … Read more
By: Hannah Hardy Divorce can be a tumultuous experience for families, and when it happens later in life, adult children often find themselves in an unexpected emotional maelstrom. One of the most challenging aspects can be the instinct to protect one parent over the other. Navigating these emotions while maintaining your own well-being is crucial. … Read more
Divorcing parents often fear the child custody process. They worry that the separation will wreak havoc on their child’s routine and stability. But child custody laws in NC seek to facilitate an arrangement that places your child’s best interests as the highest priority. Understanding these laws can bring you peace of mind about how you … Read more
Divorce can be overwhelming and emotionally draining, but you don’t have to face it alone. Therapy can be a crucial part of healing and moving forward. Whether it’s individual, couples, family, or group therapy, professional support can help you navigate the complexities of divorce. Learn about the benefits of therapy, when to consider it, and … Read more
When couples in North Carolina decide to part ways, one of the most emotionally charged aspects of the separation can be determining who gets to keep the family pet. While the law has clear guidelines for child custody, pet custody falls into a more complex and less defined category. Here’s what you need to know … Read more
Divorce is a tumultuous time filled with emotional and financial challenges. It’s a period when individuals are vulnerable, making them prime targets for various scams. One particularly insidious type of fraud is phishing, where scammers manipulate individuals into divulging sensitive information or sending money. Understanding how these scams work and how to protect yourself can … Read more
Choosing your divorce lawyer in North Carolina is one of the most crucial decisions in divorce proceedings. A family law attorney in NC will provide legal guidance, represent you in court, and offer professional support during one of the most challenging times in your life. But where do you begin? The experienced legal team at Triangle … Read more
Divorce is never easy, but it can be especially challenging for fathers. The team at Triangle Divorce Lawyers has helped numerous fathers navigate the complexities of divorce over the years, and we understand the unique emotional and legal hurdles you face. This blog aims to provide you with practical advice and valuable resources to support … Read more
Divorce can be a tumultuous experience for families, and when it happens later in life, adult children often find themselves in an unexpected emotional maelstrom. One of the most challenging aspects can be the instinct to protect one parent over the other. Navigating these emotions while maintaining your own well-being is crucial. Here’s a guide … Read more
Divorce is rarely easy. It’s a significant life event that brings about a whirlwind of emotions, from grief and anger to relief and hope for the future. As divorce attorneys, we understand that the legal process is just one aspect of divorce; the emotional journey is equally important. In this blog post, we’ll explore some … Read more
Divorce is a multifaceted process that encompasses emotional, legal, and financial aspects. While the legal dimensions often take center stage, the financial implications of divorce are equally significant. In this blog post, we’ll explore the financial aspects of divorce, including key considerations, strategies for managing finances during and after divorce, and resources for seeking professional … Read more
The days of families fitting certain criteria are long gone. Diversity is an important aspect of the modern family structure and is worth celebrating, especially during observances like the International Day of Families in May. Although diverse family structures are part of all aspects of society, they don’t always experience fair treatment. Legal protections for … Read more
Divorce is a complex and challenging process that involves various legal considerations. One of the most important decisions you’ll make during divorce is choosing the right legal path to pursue. In this blog post, we’ll explore the different legal options available during divorce, including traditional litigation, mediation, collaborative divorce, and arbitration, to help you understand … Read more
Nothing about divorce is easy. You may be dividing up assets, dealing with a loss of income, and struggling with feelings of loneliness. But if you have kids, navigating the ensuing custody battles is the biggest challenge you’ll likely face. In honor of Mother’s Day, we have prepared an essential guide to help you understand … Read more
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